The sign?

[bethoven]

I have a brother. He is only 7 years old and I observed that he is fond of playing with girls. Do you think this would be a sign that he would become a gay? I am not against them. I just want to know some information about it.

[fret]

I don't know some information about gays. In your brother's case, I don't consider it a sign yet. There is nothing wrong when he plays with girls. And besides, it's too early to tell. Has he been doing this for long?

[WildblueChld]

I don't think it is a sign for being gay - Actually I would think that if he likes to play with the girls, that would show an early attraction to female species more than seeing it as a tendency towards homosexuality. But in any case, since he is only 7 years old, I don't think you need to look at it either way, he is just too young.

[mamabear]

Playing with girls at the age of seven is not a sign of being gay. It shows that your brother is socially adjusted to the opposite sex. He will start to shun the girl playmates around the age of 8-10.

[Kat]

Originally Posted by bethoven

I have a brother. He is only 7 years old and I observed that he is fond of playing with girls. Do you think this would be a sign that he would become a gay? I am not against them. I just want to know some information about it.

No dear, that is not a sign that your brother is going to be gay when he grows up it is natural and normal for boys to play with girls . Alot of children are that way I know when i was really young I prefered to play with the boys because they were nicer that the girls were .

[Arudo]

Umm not really. Maybe he's just shy with the girls? Because it takes time (for some people) to communicate with the other sex. Mostly it's boys.

[krisskross]

I think it's too early to say that your brother is a gay. I don't think there's something wrong in playing with the girls. Maybe when he matures, he could be a guy who is fond with ladies. What do you think?

[creobiz]

I don't think so. I am straight but I enjoyed playing with girls when I was still a child. I liked them because they are, you know, different with us. They have softer skin, more enjoyable voice, and more lovely behaviour. For me, they are just more interesting than us . Now I even enjoy playing with them much more hehehe.....just kidding.

[kimik]

I don't think that's a sign of being a gay. Maybe you can site more information, why you thought have signs of being a gay, like how does he speaks, is he imitating the girls, and their actions. some thing like that. but the mere playing is not a sign.

[Bubble]

It's not a sign of being gay, more of a sign in his interest in girls I would imagine.

Just reverse the situation. When I was growing up, I spent a lot of time hanging out with guys, and I didn't turn out gay!