Girls Who Come On Too Strong

[Experimental]

I have to admit, before I was married I was the typical guy. Yes, if a girl wanted to go to bed with me, I usually took her up on it. But have you ever met a girl who was so very aggressive that it literally turned you off. I had one girl who did this to me and then she couldn't understand why I wasn't ripping her clothes off. It really was just too much from someone I really didn't like in the first place.

[MsThang]

I think each person has their own tastes; I've certainly been turned off by guys who come on too strong as well, so it just goes either way. You didn't like the girl, but I'm sure there are plenty of guys who, in your shoes, would have jumped right on the girl.

[crammer]

This applies for males just the same. Sometimes a little forward is a good thing but when you get older and you are a tad more tane, its a turn off. I think thats where you are now.

[silviana]

You know, I think it is all about the chemistry. When I first met my current husband, I couldn't wait for him to rip my clothes off but he didn't. As he said later, he didn't want to frighten me away but I'd have loved him to have been more forward!

[rosebud]

I guess it really depends on your preference and who you're dating with. It's good to be yourself and express that you cannot do it the rough way and your partner will understand. But if she insist that you can do it, just go with the flow.

[mamabear]

We all have our unique individuality, and some women are more aggressive or more dominant than the rest of us. It's the way they are.

[21Cfox]

As I am a shy person, I like and adore women who are a bit aggresive. I will take their aggressiveness as a compliment. My girl friend? I adore her though she is not so aggressive as I expect she is.

[Experimental]

That is true. We all have our preferences but I guess my point is, not all males are raring to go all of the time. Sometimes I think women think that men are just always sexually "on" when we aren't just as women aren't.

[21Cfox]

If you happen to be not "on", it is her job to get you "on" LOL. Just kidding. You are right though, I have to admit it. Men are not sex machines which you can turn on an off as you like.

[Jeff]

There are times when it's fun to let the girl take the lead and be the aggressor. I just happen to be one of those guys who likes this.